In the end, I knew my life was not going to go anywhere with this woman in my life so I left. To be fair, my mom’s relatives are narcissists as well and a few of them wanted “legit” reasons to cut contact with me anyways so no loss there for the most part. I don’t want my mom to be a part of my life anymore because she is a very toxic person who only looks to push your buttons so she can play victim with everyone she knows to gain sympathy (one of many things she does to manipulate me.) That toxic behavior cost me friendships and close contact with relatives. Having a narcissistic mom myself, I can understand where you’re coming from. “If your mom is a toxic person, of course it’s okay. I don’t want my mom to be a part of my life anymore because she is a very toxic person who only looks to push your buttons. “I just cut ties with my mom after a long history of putting up with un-mom-like behavior and frankly it feels pretty good to not have an emotional obligation to someone who didn’t feel one toward me anymore.”Ĥ. I just cut ties with my mom after a long history of putting up with un-mom-like behavior. Just in case you were curious, that one’s a no.”ģ. Side note-I initially read the question as you asking if it’s OK to punch your mom. “Being your mother doesn’t get her a pass to make you miserable. Being your mother doesn’t get her a pass to make you miserable. “If your mom is toxic, there should be no guilt about maintaining your own boundaries.”Ģ. If your mom is toxic, there should be no guilt.